Free Gemini Love Match Astrology

A Gemini Love Match must first understand the workings of the Gemini Woman's mind. This is no small task. It is as labyrinthine as the circuitry of a computer. It is so tied to her complex inner nature that it seems inseparable from the total fabric of her life. She is indeed very sexual, uniquely and mysteriously so. There are various levels of understanding the complexity of the Gemini Woman. There are also infinite manifestations of the sign. There is probably more variety among Gemini Women than among any of the other signs.

The Gemini Woman carries with her the search for her other half, the twin part of her. In this search, she flits from lover to lover, husband to husband, in hopes of finding her elusive "perfect mate," the "someone" who can satisfy her strong inner needs for identity and wholeness. For Gemini, sexual fulfillment comes only with mental satisfaction. The Gemini Woman is more interested in IQ than in genitals. She must be able to respect the intellect, or satisfaction is not possible for her.

She may have many, many affairs and never find her true love. Although her body may be brutalized and her sensitivities trampled underfoot, she retains a semblance of having never been touched. When, in desperation, she feels her search is almost hopeless, she looks in the most unlikely places, seeking men who even vaguely match the mental model. During this phase she may become quite promiscuous.

The Gemini Woman tends to be nervous, restless, and tuned to a very high pitch. The close bond between her sexuality and her intellect creates an almost neurotic sex drive. Her search for a lover also becomes a search for an intellectual companion, the lost half of herself. Little wonder that many men find it impossible to understand the Gemini Woman; she often misunderstands herself.

In spite of her constant chatter, the many people she draws to her and her frequent, tragic love affairs, she spends most of her life feeling lonely. She seeks the one perfect mate, an intellectual and emotional counterpart to rescue her from her loneliness. She is trying to achieve the emotional release of her whole being, not just the stimulation of her sexual anatomy.

Gemini’s search gives her an opportunity to develop numerous close friendships and have many acquaintances. It can take her on journeys for which she may lack the fortitude, but along the way she picks up much of the vast knowledge she keeps stored in her head. When and if she decides the search is indeed fruitless, she can relax and enjoy seeing new places, meeting new people, facing new adventures.

She is prone to withdraw into very private spaces that few other humans can enter. It is here that she contemplates separation from and loss of her cosmic lover. During such reveries she feels completely alone and unloved. She spends most of her life looking for what she has lost — a search that is doomed from the start. When she inevitably gives up the search, she seeks a replacement that can take the form of oblivion. She may attempt to destroy the sensitivities and longings that fill her soul, to become polished at self-destruction, for she yearns to return to the cosmos, where her lover waits.

In terms of sexual encounters, the Gemini Woman craves variety. She delights in being taken by surprise when she least expects it, Steal her away from a wedding reception and take her to the boathouse. She’ll love it. She also likes to be waylaid on the run — on an airplane, in the back seat of a car, in the darkness of the tunnel of love. She takes pleasure where she finds it.

She is sensory as well as sensual. She likes to see what is going on (a well-placed mirror two). She likes to hear the sounds of love, but don’t be too explicit, for she is somewhat a prude at heart. She likes to have the lights left on because she doesn’t want to miss anything. Her bedroom, often as sumptuous as that of her Taurus sister, will be erotic. Soft lights, romantic music, rich liqueurs - all help to set the stage for her tempestuous tumbles.

True to the duality of her nature, she is a mixture of opposites. She is open about her love life, and a constant amazement to her friends as she reveals the innermost details concerning her body and mind. She enjoys shocking, but at the same time, she craves respectability. Deep within her soul is an iconoclast who delights in knocking over idols and killing sacred cows. Often her exploits are verbally exaggerated, far surpassing reality.

She has a freedom-loving spirit, but her sex life is often inhibited. She hesitates to try some forms of sex because she thinks they are distasteful. The physical side of life often is hidden away, even though she enjoys "dirty" talk. She has an intellectualized concept of sex. After she has snared her male prey, she will often tire of him or, even worse, be bored. She is not really enthusiastic about an abundance of sex or childbearing. Her interest in the erotic is largely verbal.

Fantasy is a very big part of sex for the Gemini Woman. The scenario she constructs in her imagination includes graphic details of the meeting, the chase, the seduction and the dirty talk during sex. She is a master at this game, which is just as important to her as the real physical thing.

The idea of sex often motivates her more than the physical act itself, thus, she may appear to chase every man she meets. She isn`t oversexed; she just feels compelled to sample as much variety as she can in her search for the perfect mate. In fact, it is a variety of sensations and experiences more often than deep feelings and permanent attachments that drives her to seek so many contacts.

The Gemini Woman is youth-oriented. She often has her most important love affair while she is still very young. This early imprint colors her future attitudes toward sex and love. Maturity and immaturity go hand in hand. All her life, the Gemini Woman retains a youthful quality that can be truly beautiful. She simply refuses to give in to the traditional idea of old age. She has an eternal air of the little girl lost. This makes her very appealing. What man doesn’t want to rescue a little girl lost in the forest of life?

She often uses her vast knowledge to eliminate unwanted competition, bringing it to bear on a rival. She maintains a healthy "one jump ahead" attitude. Often the competition feels the impact of a hit but has literally no idea whence it came. The Gemini Woman can have an unintentional and unconscious cruel streak. If her search for a soulmate is frustrated and other factors contribute to her boredom, she can appear to have little if any affection, ethics, or morals. Her attitude towards sex can become selfish, cool, calculated.

She demands attention to feed her ego. She is not concerned with things that do not directly affect or touch her. She often has a need to be the center of everything, and her level of interest in a man is high only if he seems to revolve around her. Sex with her can be explosive. However, unless it is attractively and effectively packaged and satisfies her seemingly neurotic needs, it will evaporate into the air like a warm breath on a winter day.

Two key words provide a better understanding of Gemini sexuality. One is excitement. Her ever-roving mind, constantly in motion, demands excitement and stimulation. If it is bored, she is bored. The straight missionary position for sex will bore her to tears; she craves the new and different. The other key word is integration. Gemini unites sex with a number of her other strong needs, and if deeper, emotional needs are not being satisfied, she is often sexually unfulfilled. If she can find inward reassurance that the man she is with at least satisfies some of her emotional needs, then sex with him will be good, even terrific.

Many a Gemini Woman simply will not have sex with a man unless she feels that her sexual interest is tied to another interest, a deeper, more lasting, emotional one. Contrary to what many people assume, she is not into sex for its own sake. Pure physical joy, so important to her Taurus sister, is not important to the Gemini Woman. She wants more. When she puts her hand in his pocket, she wants more than to feel his genitals; she wants attention, security, companionship.

Curiosity marks Gemini as a child and young adult. She wants to know what is happening behind her parents closed bedroom door and is likely to peek at one time or another. She is curious about the anatomy of her playmates and may explore that realm during childhood games. A precocious child has sexual experiences early in life. She also tends to fall in love very early on. Her crushes often blossom into full-fledged love affairs, on her part at least.

She ties much of her emotional life into this first relationship, and the imprint is lifelong. If she is overly criticized or chastised for her mad crushes, either by a parent or an older brother or sister, this too can have a lasting detrimental effect on her life. If she suffers disapproval at an early age in her search for a soulmate, the disapproval can manifest itself over the years and become guilt when, as an adult, she continues and enlarges her quest.

She tends to be a highly emotional child and will run the emotional gamut more quickly than most, She has difficulty sticking with a single feeling. Fantasy plays an important part in her early development. She may have imaginary playmates with whom she engages in some pretty wild and far-out sexual activities. She has an ability to construct long, complex stories of the perfect love and act them out in the safety and privacy of her own room. Her fear of putting these fantasies into action often has a bearing on her sexual actualization later on in life.

Usually by her twentieth year, the Gemini Woman has received the imprint for her sexual development and will seldom deviate from it. True to the rest of her development, however, she can be as varied in her tastes for sex as she is in her personality. Whatever her sexual orientation, she still pursues the ever-elusive lost part of herself. She seeks a mirror image from which to learn. She would be happiest if she could clone herself into an identical twin so that she could observe her actions more closely and accurately.

After a youthful period in which she generally falls completely, head-over-heals in love, the Gemini Woman refines her ardor and begins to learn how to use love. She can then fall for an ideal or idea, but often not with the man who shares her bed. It sometimes seems that she rejects love because it is too painful and hurnful for her sensitive nature. She prefers to use it. Sex becomes mechanized and offers little more than a nervous release.

Sex and love are almost synonymous for the Gemini Woman. They both become means to an end. In her cool and calculating way, the Gemini Woman learns to invest little emotion in the act of loving. She will often give her body but not her heart. To separate sex from love, she needs to analyze more carefully her motivations for getting involved with a man. If she can learn that there is nothing inherently wrong in sharing sex to actualize a fantasy, acknowledging the experience as such, she can also learn to recognize the difference between fantasy sex and love sex.

The Gemini Woman`s mind is her principal erogenous zone. She can be sexually turned on by talk and completely turned off by silent sex. The "zipless fuck" in Fear of Flying was invented for a Gemini Woman. Besides erotic talk, her sexual desire can be heightened by word games in her palm, kisses on her rib cage, tracing the lines of her pelvic structure, and a gentle kneading of her breasts. She is not often patient in her sexual advances. She can become the aggressor and let her sexual needs be known. She is expert at doing two things at once - performing
fellatio while giving one of the most complete buttocks massages he’s ever had, for example.

Her restless mind and endless curiosity are always seeking more satisfaction from sex. She is open to experimentation and is interested in kinky sex toys and assorted vibrators and stimulators. Her "variety is the spice of life" attitudes are very apparent in her sexual nature.

Her sexual response pattern in intercourse:
l. Teasing, exciting, and raising the atmosphere to a fever pitch; delaying and talking or smoking to further the sexual anticipation.
2. When the moment is right for her, quick and complete involvement, no holds barred.
3. Explosive, verbal orgasm.
4. Quick cooling of passion; little affection, small talk well into the night; giggling, running to the kitchen for something to drink, great need for affection. For Gemini, once is enough in terms of intercourse.

The Gemini Woman needs a man who can give her his undivided attention, who will talk until the wee hours about every subject under the sun, who will express himself gutturally, have a quick sexual encounter and then forget about it. Of course, he should also be knowledgeable, informative, intellectual, enternaining, companionable, a true friend (and comfortably wealthy).

The Gemini Woman likes variety in sex. If she can’t find it in one man, she will probably look for it wherever it can be found. Therefore, her man must be versatile. He should like mutual oral sex, shouldn‘t be averse to anal sex (she can be real mean with a dildo), and should be ready for any other variation the fertile Gemini mind can imagine. If she wants to nibble on his nipples or massage his pectorals, he should be receptive. She knows how to stimulate a man, and he may never have experienced such a master. If he’s open to experimentation with her, he must also be open to her experimentation with him.

She also needs a man with whom she feels comfortable and can relax. lf the man is as high-strung and nervous as she, chances for meaningful sex are almost nil. Both will have a tendency to fly over the moon before getting down to the nitty—gritty. Gemini’s man must know when to direct the playing into definitive sexual intercourse. She enjoys continued stimulation in all the same places during intercourse. It helps if he is octopuslike and extremely agile.

Her man must develop a high tolerance for attempts to make him jealous. She will often form platonic friendships with other men for the sole purpose of testing her mate/lover. The more jealous he becomes, the more she thinks he loves her. He needs to wean her from this tactic by providing adequate proof in other ways. To avoid frustration, he should only allow his jealousy to surface occasionally. However, if he totally ignores her and doesn’t provide feedback, she is apt to leave because she feels bored, She likes some fireworks in her relationships on the sexual level. Her man can take her aside at a party and say, "Your flirting with other men is getting me so aroused that I’m having difficulty concentrating on polite conversation." This
will often send her sexual anticipation soaring, and she'll probably begin moving towards the door.

There is really no one stereotype to which Gemini’s man must conform. She can tease, coax, and excite the best sexual performance out of any male, from the macho type to the very effeminate. This is her specialty, and she seldom fails to arouse even the most impassive of men. In fact, she sometimes enjoys a man she can dominate physically and emotionally; this seems to feed her sadistic streak. The only criterion she steadfastly applies is that the man be her intellectual equal.

She constantly tests his intellect, for she believes that no one is really on the same level as she is. She enjoys worthy competition and would probably be more interested in sex if she thought it a real challenge, She is firm in her knowledge that if she loses an argument in the living room, she’ll win it back in the bedroom. It takes shrewdness and understanding on the part of her man to even halfway control her antics.

Once the Gemini Woman has turned off her emotions, she shows little sympathy for the weaknesses of others. She can easily assume the dominatrix role. Her seemingly natural cruelty and feeling of intellectual superiority make it easy for her to assume the role of the S&M mistress. If a man wants to be dominated and have his emotions walked on, the Gemini Woman can fill the bill.

Gemini’s basic fantasy casts her in the role of star performer before a large audience. She holds everyone spellbound by her speaking ability, acting and talented performances of life. Just as she has the audience firmly in the palm of her hand, she picks out those she wants to experience as sexual partners. Then, as the television cameras record it all for posterity, she undresses her favorites and chooses the very best to have sex with right then and there. Of course, true to her nature, the performance is followed by thunderous and never-ending applause.

She needs a man who can help her actualize the practical parts of her fantasies, since she often has trouble acting on the stage she sets in her mind. She really wants some of these fantasies to become realities and she needs a man with the patience to help her work through them. He won’t have to purchase expensive designer clothes, or exotic floral extravaganzas. She actually prefers simple permanent press and clean—sme1ling essences of lemon and pine. He does, however, need to respect the images of her mind as it ceaselessly creates new and different scenes for their mutual discovery and enjoyment.

Above all, Gemini needs a man who can dispel the abject loneliness she often feels. By the time she is in her mid-twenties, she has experienced more than most people feel in a lifetime, and she can join Peggy Lee in saying, "Is that all there is?" Gemini is often left with a tremendous void that all the variations of sex, all the intellectual games, and all the wanderings of her travel-weary imagination cannot possibly fill. The man who provides this fulfillment must first be fully aware of himself confident about his own nature and his life pattern. Then, he must be willing to spend the necessary time to help her find the lost part of herself.

The soulmate she seems forever seeking is often standing within her, patiently awaiting her final discovery - that what one often wants the most, craves the most and spends the most time looking for is within oneself. Her man can help her focus her attention inward to see what she has thus far missed. He needs to be her friend and her sex partner, all rolled into one.

It is the rare Gemini Woman who finds the perfect mate, and she must be aware of the near impossibility of her search. Until she understands herself, she will be victimized by her own dreams. She will end up a lonely and bitter person as she flits from romance to romance (in her searching state of mind, "toad to toad" may be more like it) in search of her Prince Charming.

She must learn to accept the men in her life as they are, not as she would like them to be. This is not to say that she should give up her search, but only that she must learn quickly to recognize the man she really wants. She must gain the patience to look for him and wait for him constructively. She should not allow societal scorn to daunt her.

She has to develop a thick skin in dealing with those people who would force her into a Cancerian mold - the place most women are put by traditional society. Being a Gemini Woman requires a lot of strength, for she consumes prodigious energy while pursuing her many adventures and following her impulses to their natural conclusions. The stakes are high and the risks great, but the prize is a pot of gold at the end of her personal rainbow. If it pays off, the reward is well worth the risk.

The Gemini Woman often gives herself too quickly. She needs to slow down and discover whether her current attraction is really worth the emotional investment. She needs to hold back until she falls in love. Often, since her judgments are so swift, she would do better to postpone a decision until she has given a man the chance to reveal his inner nature. She intuitively knows what she is looking for, and the man she is currently pursuing may himself be looking for the perfect mate while hiding behind the dominant Leo image that seems to be vogue in America at this time.

She needs to learn respect for the intelligence of others. Often her acid wit will be remembered long after she has forgotten how she used it on someone. Minds work differently. Gemini, ruled by Mercury, moves as swiftly as quicksilver. By contrast, the Taurus mind moves with the force of an earthquake. She needs to see the effectiveness of both approaches and understand that the intellect of any developed person is capable of great thought. She will notice a sharp rise in her own stock as she begins treating others as intellectual equals.

She has a tendency to pick losers in love affairs. She must begin to ask herself objectively a dual question: What can this man give me, and what can I give him in return? Only if there is mutual need and mutual benefit can any relationship work. Too often, the Gemini Woman takes what is available and tries to wring, squeeze, tease, hint, beg, steal, or force what she wants from it - and this is especially true of sexual/romantic affairs. At the same time, she rarely gives much of herself or expects him to, either. This can retard her personal growth and lead to complete disaster both in business and in love.

Her nervous sexual energy can be channeled into a creative outlet, be it a new interior for her home or a business where she can utilize her many-faceted personality. Frustration and anger get in her way too often. She needs to learn to release and express these emotions constructively. Since she can verbalize so well, she should perhaps join groups where she can learn about the sources of anger and frustration and see how others, perhaps her astrological sisters, cope with their problems.

Above all she must learn self-control. If she allows her natural tendencies free rein, she is courting disaster. She must put distance between herself and the way she sees herself. This will enable her to perceive what her life is really like and how she can change it, She must put brakes on her mind, or it will run away, aimless, careening off various stimuli it encounters along the way, never attaching itself to anything. Once she has tamed that wild stallion, she will be in a better position to understand her true nature and do something about it. How she deals with her inner-self will determine a great deal about how she deals with sex and relationships.

Back to the top of Free Gemini Love Match Astrology.